HomeFashion4.9 billion likes & counting: TikTok icon Addison Rae is GLAMOUR’S February digital coverstar, opening up on mental health, beauty & cracking Hollywood
4.9 billion likes & counting: TikTok icon Addison Rae is GLAMOUR’S February digital coverstar, opening up on mental health, beauty & cracking Hollywood
February 15, 2021
Addison Rae is formally TikTok’s high earner, however as Josh Smith will get the primary unique cowl interview with the social media sensation, he meets the very actual lady behind the billions of likes and hundreds of thousands of followers.
There are social media phenomena after which there’s Addison Rae. In simply 18 months since becoming a member of TikTok, the American 20-year-old has amassed 4.9 billion likes on TikTok (to place that in perspective, we’re speaking 3.5 occasions all the inhabitants of China, FYI) and 76 million followers by her addictive array of dance routines, lip syncs and sweetness movies.
She has since been named TikTok’s highest earner by Forbes, with an estimated fortune of $5 million, largely due to offers with manufacturers starting from American Eagle to Reebok. That’s earlier than you even keep in mind Addison’s personal cosmetics line ITEM Magnificence, which launched in August 2020 promoting solely on-line, or the truth that she has additionally simply wrapped her first characteristic movie He’s All That. Addison is taking the lead within the reboot of noughties rom-com She’s All That – reverse Cobra Kai’s Tanner Buchanan and that includes a cameo from her BFF, Kourtney Kardashian (however extra on that later).
All of that is made much more unimaginable while you realise that Addison solely joined the fledgling social media app in August 2019, after her profession as a aggressive dancer stalled. For the reason that age of six, Addison had been competing in dance competitions throughout the USA. She grew up in Lafayette, Louisiana along with her mother and father Monty, and Sheri, a former make-up artist and two youthful brothers Lucas and Enzo, and was on the right track to pursue a dance profession when a ‘failure’ compelled her to vary course.
“In my senior yr I used to be making an attempt out for the school dance staff, and I ended up not making it,” she reminisces. “I used to be like, ‘Oh my gosh. How am I going to proceed entertaining and performing with out making the staff?’ I believed I had to surrender on all my goals, however about 4 to 5 months later I began social media and TikTok. Swiftly – out of nowhere – I used to be posting on a regular basis and getting likes, views and followers. Social media provided me a very superior roadway to take. Typically the highway you did not suppose you had been going to take is the one that you simply do, and also you’re glad that you simply did.”
Her success inspired her to drop out of Louisiana State College the place she was finding out broadcast journalism, and swapped her pupil digs for TikTok’s Hype Home in LA. The Spanish-style mansion – full with a big pool and large enough to accommodate 19 creators – was additionally dwelling to fellow mega-creators, Charli and Dixie D’Amelio and Bryce Corridor (now Addison’s boyfriend). In case you are not acquainted, consider it as The Mickey Mouse Membership for Gen-Z expertise.
Right now nonetheless, similar to the remainder of us Addison is in lockdown, now dwelling in an residence in LA, which it seems as if she’s solely simply moved in. There are packing containers scattered throughout the bare-walled, high-ceilinged white lounge; the one ornament is an indoor palm. However quickly after Zooming into her world, I study why this lady, all sunshine and smiles, has captured the hearts and minds of Era Z and past. Addison, sporting an outsized black hoodie, her brunette hair relaxed and tousled, is extra Zen than her TikTok persona suggests, and it’s similar to chatting to any common 20 yr previous.
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WATCH: Addison Rae opens up about engaged on her psychological well being, remedy & success
However not like most twenty-something ladies, she has reached such excessive ranges of success so shortly, she’s needed to take care of an onslaught of trolling that sadly appears to return with it. “I’ve dealt so much with on-line hate and social media drama, with individuals which can be very opinionated and don’t desire individuals to be completely happy,” Addison reveals, earlier than searching for cause behind the hate.
“Individuals see individuals’s successes generally and need it was them, which is completely comprehensible. I’ve even been there in my life too, the place I am like, ‘I want I had this or I want I had what she had.’ That brings you envy generally and I might carry that anger out onto them, which has by no means been a satisfying factor. I’ve realised it’s a must to be completely happy for individuals.”
“After I take a look at unfavourable feedback I can’t let it get to me that a lot and I believe, ‘That does not outline me, they usually do not actually actually know me in my coronary heart.’ There’s going to be individuals that do not such as you and that wish to tear you down, however it’s a must to love your self for who you might be.”
What could be a triggering remark for her, I ask? “Plenty of it has to do with physique picture,” Addison sighs. “It is a actually onerous factor to take care of while you’re a woman, particularly going by your teenagers. I’m 20 and my physique is consistently altering, however individuals have this excessive customary round physique picture and say, ‘Oh, it’s a must to appear to be this to look nice or to look sizzling or to be cool or to be fairly.’ For me, lots of people have mentioned, ‘Oh I really like how snug she is and he or she does not appear to be the wonder customary.’ It is a backhanded praise generally as a result of individuals shall be like, ‘I am so glad she’s assured that she does not look excellent.’ It hurts generally when individuals say that, as a result of I believe everybody’s excellent, so why is there some customary of ‘this physique is the perfect physique’? I’ve thought so much prior to now yr that it does not actually outline me and I’m studying to like my physique and who I’m, for what I’m.”
She provides: “There’s this one quote that I really like: ‘comparability is the thief of pleasure.’ That is so true as a result of while you begin evaluating your self to somebody, you are simply asking to be upset since you’re evaluating your self to one thing that you’ll by no means be, since you’re solely you,” she smiles.
Comparability tradition has sadly been affecting Addison since her dancing days. “Rising up as a dancer there have been at all times comparisons,” Addison provides, “and folks saying, ‘If you happen to’re this age, you ought to be at this degree.” Or, ‘If you happen to’re on this staff, you ought to be at this rating.’ However everybody goes by their lives at completely different levels, and nobody is on the very same path, ever. I’ve learnt to seek out self-validation in you can solely be the very best you can be.”
Comparability traps are the worst, I agree, realizing I’ve personally misplaced hours of my life evaluating my physique to different males on Instagram. “100%!” Addison screams. “I used to ask myself, ‘Why does not my physique appear to be that? Or why is not my hair that means? Or why is my face this fashion?’ And even feature-wise, generally I might simply actually take a look at myself and decide myself aside for no cause. There may be a lot happening on the earth at this time, including vanity onto that’s actually powerful. If you cannot mentally, emotionally or bodily love who you might be it turns into actually tough to even be completely happy. I do know I’ve not been consuming the very best throughout quarantine or perhaps not understanding as a lot and watching quite a lot of TV, however we have to give ourselves grace.” We will all relate to that, I inform her, placing down my chocolate biscuit whereas penning this.
Other than taking the time to make herself really feel good by train, caring for her pores and skin, spending “actual time with individuals” away from her telephone and “filling my feed with issues that may assist,” Addison has been attending remedy to assist her grapple along with her life-changing 18 months. “I began seeing a therapist, which was actually useful simply to not really feel so down about myself,” she shares. “Self-worth is an enormous factor that I have been engaged on the previous few months as a result of it is positively an actual battle, and it does have an effect on you in your day by day life, not having excessive self-worth. Remedy is an effective way to work on that and it’s an outlet to talk on issues which can be bothering you internally. Simply with the ability to have somebody to speak to has been an enormous factor for me and understanding that in the event you let individuals perceive you a bit of extra, then they may.”
What’s the gamechanging recommendation she has discovered in remedy, I’m wondering? “Not letting your previous outline your future. Not falling into the identical issues that you’ve seen or recognized earlier than that you already know are usually not proper, and never letting that dictate what you are going to do in your life,” Addison replies. “And, directing your individual path and making your life what you need it to be. You are making your future.”
Leaning on her TikTok sisterhood, together with Charli and Dixie D’Amelio – who commonly seem in her TikTok movies – and, in fact, her pal Kourtney Kardashian (the pair met after Kourtney’s son Mason grew to become considered one of many Addison superfans), has additionally helped Addison to take care of the highlight. “Having a help system over the web or outdoors of it’s equally essential. Fortunately, I’ve an important group of buddies to actually be there for me, perceive what I am going by and the place I’m. Discovering that core group of buddies is essential to preserving myself completely happy,” she says.
Given Kourtney has deliberately and unintentionally shared virtually each facet of her life with the world’s Kardashian-thirsty viewers, Addison has sought her recommendation on fame. “It is actually inspiring to see individuals which can be so completely happy of their lives and are so put collectively after the whole lot they have been by,” Addison reveals. “That is why I look as much as Kourtney so much and her total household – all through the whole lot you’ll be able to lean again on your loved ones and buddies to actually have that emotional and psychological help. It actually pulls you thru on the finish. One thing that she informed me was, ‘Ensure you’re at all times having fun with what you are doing as a result of that is the life you are dwelling. Ensure it is one thing that you simply’re happy with and also you’re persevering with to do the belongings you love.’”
Having “tough and trustworthy conversations” along with her mother and father, Sheri and Monty – each now influencers in their very own proper with 1.2 million and 355,000 Instagram followers respectively – has additionally helped Addison. These conversations now play out in her podcast along with her mom Mama Is aware of Greatest, the place the pair talk about adulting. “I used to suppose I needed to conform to each magnificence customary,” Addisons tells me, earlier than revealing a comedic tackle their deep conversations. “My mother at all times informed me don’t examine your self to them as a result of they’re at all times going to be evolving. My mother used to have thicker eyebrows, however she tweezed all of them away as a result of she was like, ‘Within the ’90s, that was the best factor to have the small eyebrows – wow I simply want I had left my eyebrows regular!’”
Having been by her personal struggles magnificence requirements, it’s no surprise Addison needed to sprinkle her trademark type of empowerment by her personal clear, vegan magnificence line, ITEM Magnificence. With cute packaging and snappy names, the vary options the whole lot from lip gloss (Lip Quip) to forehead pencils (Forehead Chow), focused on the beauty-hungry Gen-Z viewers, with an reasonably priced price ticket to match. And from the offset, Addison was clear she needed to be her personal breed of magnificence mogul: one who campaigns for change.
“I began seeing a therapist, which was actually useful simply to not really feel so down about myself… Self-worth is an enormous factor that I have been engaged on the previous few months as a result of it is positively an actual battle, and it does have an effect on you in your day by day life.”
Earlier than reaching magnificence boss standing, nonetheless, there was the odd ridiculous factor Addison has carried out within the title of magnificence. “I used to be very obsessive about dimples and beloved the best way they appeared on individuals,” she laughs. “I appeared up a YouTube video on find out how to get dimples, and I might actually” – Addison pauses to choose up a whisk from a discarded field and press the deal with into her cheek – “You’d take a pin, I used to be getting pencils, pens and markers, after which spin it in your dimple. I used to be like, ‘I would like it! It is the prettiest factor ever! Dimples are the very best on the earth!’ I bear in mind my cousin and I had been in our rooms making an attempt to provide ourselves dimples, as a result of we had been so in love with it.”
Regardless of making it as a Gen-Z icon and profitable entrepreneur at simply 20 years previous, Addison says her largest ‘pinch your self’ second got here in summer season final yr when she was solid in He’s All That. “It’s been a dream of mine perpetually to be an actress,” she says. “To be actually known as one now, is simply actually insane. Rising up, I used to be at all times in appearing lessons and watching films and pretending I used to be the character.” As she speaks, she simply occurs to be sitting proudly within the He’s All That branded director’s chair that she took dwelling after wrapping filming in January.
Does she fear about crossing over into a brand new realm and the dreaded media criticism typically directed at ladies who department out from what they’re recognized for? “The response is a bit of scary generally as a result of individuals do not actually know what I did or aspired to do earlier than I began social media,” Addison tells me. “Individuals base something I do off, ‘Oh, she began on social media,’ however with out realizing my background or realizing I’ve at all times been in appearing lessons.”
Maybe probably the most telling second about who Addison Rae truly is, comes after I ask her when she’s been probably the most happy with herself. And it has nothing to do with stats, followers and even touchdown a Hollywood film. “Simply staying mentally wholesome has been a very huge accomplishment for me,” she replies after some thought.
“Going by the adjustments of life, actually staying grounded, and remembering the place I am from. There’s so many occasions that I have been like, ‘This can be a lot, perhaps it is mentally difficult,’ after which wanting to surrender. However then I do not forget that I bought the place I’m at this time, and that I ought to take each alternative I can to only accomplish the whole lot that I dreamed of.” That’s precisely the key behind Addison’s meteoric rise: she is paving her personal path as a self-made lady.
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